‘They can because they think they can’. The power of positive thinking can never be underestimated. Someone very close to me secured the role of her dreams this week. That was the happy ending, before the ending came the beginning. A beginning of uncertainty and a lack of confidence, people telling you that you should settle for mediocre as you will not get anything better.
I accept life is not easy, but belief is the root of every success. It is easy to say positive things, but actually having belief in what you say is a different matter. We all know someone who is always negative and wants to play it safe. Over time this can grind you down.
As I mentioned at the start of this blog someone very close to me lacked the confidence to shoot for the stars as she was scared of coming up short. It was obvious to me that she had immense talent and she had been worn down by people telling her to play it safe rather than telling her to just believe in herself and give it a go. It took time but she finally started appreciating her own talent and then started getting rave reviews at interviews and her confidence grew. This week she got herself a significant pay rise and an opportunity of a lifetime that I know she will grab with both hands. She now thanks me for helping her. In truth I did absolutely nothing. She was always the unbelievable character that her new employers have been enthusing about. She just needed to find a way of unlocking that person.
You may be at the beginning of that same journey or you may know someone who is. Just remember ‘They can because they think they can’. Believe in yourself and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Be realistic but create the hype and then be that hype.
Written by,
Senior Media Sales Recruitment Consultant @LiptonFleming
I object to fear for the most part, anything thought in this vein is an excuse.







