Del boy once said ‘He who dares wins’. Great words. Now I am not suggesting Derek Edward Trotter is a man to base your business on but he was a man who was never scared to dream and that is a quality we should all embrace.
We all have dreams and thoughts of success. The difference between those who reach the promised land and those who are just dreamers is not being scared to fail. Every great success has been born out of failure and that blind faith that tells you to keep going.
I suffer from a disease called Atychiphobia. This is the fear of failure. This is what drives me. However it can also be something that could stop me reaching my fullest potential. It has taken me a long time to learn from my failures rather than allow them to debilitate me. Don’t get me wrong I do not like to fail and I am not suggesting anyone should be happy to fail, however it makes us human. I am still scared to fail but I have realised that I have to put myself outside of my comfort zone in order to reach my goals. I am realistic enough to realise that this will come with setbacks, setbacks that will shape me as a successful individual.
We have all learnt from failures throughout our lives, even if you think you haven’t. We all fell over as toddlers learning how to walk, but we got back up and gave it another go. Many of us (well me) rode into a tree or three learning how to ride a bike, but you keep going. There is no scientific formula for success, the only given is that you will fail before you get there.
So the next time you think “I’m not sure if I can do that” give it a go anyway. Yes you might fail, but you will learn more from that moment than just taking it steady and staying within your comfort zone. It may just be the making of you.
Written by,
Sunjay Patel







